One of the most awaited challenges finally begun, on 1st October. MyfriendAlexa, not only helps improving the Alexa rank of the webpage, but also gives us an opportunity to read many more talented bloggers and make a better network. Last year, during this challenge I came across so many like-minded bloggers.
It has been 7 days already, that the challenge has begun. I am up to the mark with my reading list till now, hope I follow it till the end. There are so many amazing posts. The only thing I am lacking in is my writing. Ha ha, while I am enjoying to read new blogs but the Alexa challenge is incomplete unless I publish minimum 8 posts in the current month.
This is my first post in the series, Modern age Relationship. The topic is tough as no relationship is like the other. I am focusing on the relationship of partners, spouses or we can say married or committed couples.
What is modern Age relationship:
Ever Individual id unique and so is the relationship that they develop. Where an outsider might or might not be comfortable with the chemistry and intimacy or lack of it in a couple but what is most important is how does the couple feel about it.
Lot of research’s show that the more are more of transactional. Its like give and take. The true love and sacrifices are very rare to find.
For a relationship to be successful, first of all both the partners must be on the same page. In terms of their dreams, Life goals as well as basic definitions. They will surely be different or even opposite to each other in terms of their personality.
Why do we need to address the Modern Age relationship?
Today there are many things that effect a person, how they behave and what the think. People are forgetting the joy of doing nothing, relaxing and unwinding. That surely effects their relationship too.
Social Media and Digital Overdose:
This is said time and again, its like a basic root of all the problems worldwide.
You can see a young couple at a beautiful beach, ideally, they are there to spend time together but what they actually do is take photos, update stories and status and then use all their time in checking who all checked and commented and not commented on it. They might have tagged each other but living together in real world is different from being digitally connected.
It’s a common scenario. That’s why we need to talk about modern age relationship.
Stress at work and work life balance:
Currently this is the factor that has turned our lives upside down. All the waking hours have become working hours. Earlier at least weekends and holidays were spared from office emails, presentations and work-related things but now nothing like this exists.
It’s difficult to tell If we are sitting at home and working or we have made office our home.
Lack of exercising, no real-life interaction and living in the same stressful environment is increasing the anxiety level, mood swings, addiction towards taco and alcohol.
Few days back, one of my husband’s ex-colleague called and he was saying everyday people are opening bottles which they used to do on weekends earlier, as they are anyways not travelling to work every day.
All these things are affecting not just relationship but also personal health.
These and many more such things are the reason why we must talk about modern age relationship.
In this series we will try to figure out many things that like cooking together, which exercises you can do together, what are the things you should not do to maintain harmony in a relationship, what your sleeping position suggests about your relationship and even the Sun sign compatibility.
Hope it gets interesting as we move ahead.
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